Rabbitlusi 兔子露絲

在無數談話中 無數冥想中 無數次示弱後 感覺輕鬆很多 

想明白一些 自然豁然開朗了

If he is going to do it, he will do it.

If he asks for more time, you'd better be back off because it's never gonna happen.

There is no such "right time" or "best timing" to do anything, including further study, marriage, having a kid or quiting a job. When you want to do it, you DO IT. It's all YOUR OWN CHOICE. Thus "timing" is the lamest yet best excuse for a man who is unable to admit his selfishness. 

If a man keeps SAYING things instead of DOING things, leave him for he is not reliable.

If a man says he is not sure to be with you, leave him.

If a man wants to be free from the responsiblity but still enjoy the right at the same time, he is just being a man whore.

If you want to have everything, you are going to lose everything. 

Never be with a hesitating coward. 

Never go all in a relationship before he takes the move to really make it happen.

If a man is always finding excuses, blaming others or blaming circumstances, he is immature.

Immaturity is reasonably tolerating only when there is trust and that man is willing to grow up.

If a man thinks he has no control over the situation, there are only these posibilities 1. he is stupid enough to not realize that he always has a choice 2. he wants to keep all the options open and play it like a gamble. 3. he is finding excuse.

If someone is an opprotunitist in love, stay away from him.

If a man is selfish enough to only focus on himself and not care others' feelings, stay away from him.  

If you are really angry with someone, learn to say f*ck off in a nice way.

Always pray for the one who hurts you even when you think he is a loser. Always ask for God's mercy and help for that man to grow and gain strength in that situation even if you really don't want to do it. 

Always have hope for the future. Always be thankful for God's showing you the way to happiness and peaceful life. Always love even when you want to hate. Always forgive even when you want to revenge. 

And don't forget to learn from the past experience and avoid falling for a loser again. 

Always protect yourself from the chance of being a morally corrupted woman, or a degraded person who doesn't have self-esteem.

Always believe that God needs to be the centre and he will help you out with any kind of hardship.

Always believe that you will have a wonderful relationship with the right person who is willing to build the wonderful relationship with you.

Always remember that because you fall in love too soon and too deeply, it really hurts and it doesn't help the situation at all. Wait upon God with great patience. 

Always trust the man with complete heart but at the same time remember to protect yourself from being too vulnerable and even self-destructive. 

If that man is not sure if he can have a happy life, stay away from him for he is not gonna have a happy life. 

When there is a problem, face it and solve the problem together, talk through it and try to sort it out together. If he runs away from problem, he is not suitable for you.

Always have faith and keep praying, for God is really listening and He is faithful.